Inviting own slavery

How can Africans learn politically? The political uprisings in the North African countries have claimed a lot of lives, who is responsible for the deaths? Whe people invite foreigners to have them set the pace on how they will have their transitional democracy, what does that mean? How many "true" Africans are satisfied with the current situations in Somalia, Ivory Coast, Libya, Tunisia and Egypt? Who is to blame? NATO or the Leaders?